For years I never realized that I had felt like a “victim” in relationships.  When I started to learn about Metaphysics, I came to understand that I accepted the role of victim, because I had felt unlovable.

            Having a Metaphysical view of the world assists me now in all aspects of my life. When we understand Metaphysics, it is like having a treasure map for life.  Each thing that happens in life is pointing us to a clue that will assist us in finding our treasure.  So what is the Treasure?  Our treasure in Metaphysics is learning to love one’s self and others more deeply, or finding our life’s work or where we should live to find the most joy.

            Along my life, I found myself feeling very attracted to men that were not available or were afraid of commitment.  Several years back, I had been in a very bad marriage, so I kept telling myself that I had to heal the past and let go of my fear.  In Metaphysics, others serve as our mirror, if I find I am very attracted to men that are not ready for a relationship, that must mean that I am not ready and I am not admitting it to myself.  And as I go deeper in my healing, and looking back at my first heart break and how that led me to abusive men, etc, I came to realize that the deeper problem underneath it all, was that I had never really learned to love myself.  There was a level where inside I felt unlovable and unworthy of love.

            The good news is that as I work on healing the old wounds and loving myself better, this also helps me to feel more confident.  As my confidence grows, I find more people are attracted to my business and it is growing, when others are struggling.

            Each time along the path, I find that I get more and more clues about what needs to be healed and how to heal it.  Recently, I found myself attracted to a man that is very charismatic, and yet is some how unavailable and not ready for a commitment.  Again, I went inside and saw him as my mirror and asked myself why I did not feel ready to find a committed partner, and I understood that lack of commitment really means “not believing in myself” and my ability to sustain a partnership.  What an “aha moment”, to understand again, that it wasn’t about ‘him’, it is all about ME!  That is very empowering!

            Now, I am not going to say that it is always easy, and I was frustrated and crying and asking myself, “Why doesn’t he ever have time to do things with me?”  But, when I got out of my own way, and really took responsibility for what was going on in my life, I understood that he has only been attractive to me, because I have not finished clearing out my own “cobwebs”.

            I work with acupuncture and energy healing which entails assisting people to clear out old emotions and beliefs that are holding them back in many aspects of their lives; be it physical healing, emotional healing, confidence, depression or relationships issues.  It is so much fun, to have people come to me for an allergy and not only do we get rid of the allergy, but their businesses or relationships end up improving as well.  Healing really is about knowing our own perfection and wholeness.

            Happy Healing!  Check out my website www.AlternativeHealthAndWellBeing.com